The long standing tradition of a bridal shower or “hen party” for the soon-to-be bride, and a “stag party” or bachelor’s party given for the groom are evolving into a couple’s party, also known as a “Jack and Jill” or “stag and doe” party.

Since weddings have grown more elaborate (and more expensive), and for many families, money is tight, a couple’s party usually combines a celebration with raising money to help defray the costs of the perfect venue, the perfect dress, the perfect catering, and the perfect cake.

While some controversy exists—some people perceive a couple’s party as too blatant or crass–for many engaged men and women, asking their friends for help by throwing a creative, fun event as a fundraiser is the only way they can afford their dream wedding. In most cases, a couple “sells” tickets to the event for a certain dollar amount, although if there’s a cash bar, that fact should be stated openly.

Some top tips for hosting a Jack and Jill party are:

• Be totally up front about the purpose of your party—to help defray your wedding costs. Don’t be coy. Guests should have the opportunity to decide for themselves if they want to participate. Be sure to tell them gifts aren’t expected.
• Curb your expectations and be reasonable.  Don’t put a high price on the tickets. You’ll get a more positive response if you keep your price within your friends’ budgets.
• Be classy and avoid falling into the cheap and tacky trap. The goal is for your guests to have fun. A theme might be the way to go. Use your imagination. Offer games and snacks, and conduct yourself like a proper host.

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