Hi Cheryl,
We don't have a routine or set process of posting when the original shopper has made a purchase.  The good news is, there are so many orders coming in sometimes it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.  And more good news, no matter if it's the original shopper or not it's great to see the cards selling  

We are continually making improvements to this "request a card" process. We're trying to get it as automated as possible without sending you on wild goose chases.  Hopefully at some point this will include an indicator when the original shopper has purchased.

Hope that helps.